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Love Tarot Spreads for Relationship Readings by Psychic Ginger

Date 6/17/2025
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When you call or chat with an advisor at Psychic Source about questions concerning love and relationships, there are a variety of effective methods to help guide towards an accurate reading. One tried and trusted way is with a tarot card love spread.  But did you know the specific way a love tarot advisor chooses to lay down the cards for a love tarot spread can have different results? Psychic Advisor Ginger explores below with examples using her personal tarot card deck.

I want to share with you the various tarot spreads I use to look into relationships. Each spread focuses on a different angle and can utilize different card counts to provide deeper insight.  Love and feelings can really cycle and shift, so the angle is really important to gain perspective. My goal is to tap into what's being created now, and how it will shape the emotional dynamic. We each come at relationships with our different romantic views, so these spreads shine light on those connections and help us navigate everything from new partner compatibility to understanding relationship challenges.

Understanding Card Count Variations in Love Spreads


Before diving into specific spreads, it's important to understand how different card counts can provide varying levels of insight. Single card pulls for love are perfect for quick daily guidance or when you need immediate clarity on a specific question. 3-card spreads for love offer a beautiful balance of past, present, and future perspectives, while 5-card spreads about love allow for deeper exploration of compatibility and relationship dynamics.
For more complex relationship questions, I often use a 7-card compatibility spread that examines physical compatibility, emotional compatibility, and mental compatibility between partners. The celtic cross can also be adapted for love readings when you need to explore the deeper spiritual and karmic connections in a relationship. Each card position - from the present moment card to the future card - reveals different layers of your romantic journey.

Love Tarot Spread #1 - "What Are Their Intentions?"

Love Tarot Spread #1


 

First, intentions are important. We all need things and are trying to pull those needs into our lives. In this 3-card love tarot spread I ask: 

1) What does this person want? Is it… Casual? Romantic? Long term? 
2) The second card asks how you will combine mutual expectations. 
3) The last card in this love tarot spread, sheds light on vulnerabilities, depending on the last two cards we can see if there are challenges/blocks with commitment. Your question here is: Are they emotionally available? 

In a new relationship it's important to check in with how easy going the overall relationship will be. It's more of a big picture reading. We generally want stability. And from our perspective we try to be honest. What creeps in this spread is anything that may bring in illusion, or choices that may be out of our control.

Love Tarot Spread #2 – "Do They Have Feelings For Me?"

Love Tarot Spread #2


 

Our second spread focuses on your person of interest’s relationship beliefs. Due to thinking or experience as lovers and people, we have so many layers with what we believe a relationship should be. We can be so attracted that we may feel like we immediately agree about most major things. But what if we don’t? This spread is a great way to weight those deeper issues and explore romantic compatibility. 

 

Our three questions are: 

1) How conservative is this person? 
2) When it comes to commitment, are they focused, and are they really attracted to me? Essentially this is a big read for how far things can and will go.
3) We will see any issues if our person of interest is talking to other people? Relationship progression and timelines come through in this reading.

Love Tarot Spread #3 - "Where is this Relationship Going and is it Long Term?"

Love Tarot Spread #3


 

In all relationships we have to communicate, it's the backbone of everything. The last two spreads looked at the relationship foundations. In this final spread we activate our expectations as we look at how we are being seen and heard through communication. 

 

1) For this reading ask about the flirting factor, how serious are they? 
2) Follow that with is this a connection I can trust? 
3) Your final question will be about how can we communicate better?

Compatibility and New Relationship Spreads


When you're starting fresh with someone new, the new partner compatibility spread becomes essential. This powerful spread examines what you both bring as contributions to the relationship and whether your desires align. I love using the balancing a romantic relationship spread to see what's similar and different between partners, often leading to stimulating discussion between you and your partner.
The clarity within your partnership spread is particularly helpful for understanding the connection between what happened previously in your relationship and the direction your relationship is headed. It reveals whether your potential lines up with what you both desire, creating a foundation for lasting love. The relationship perception spread helps you understand how each person views the connection, ensuring both partners are on the same page.

Decision-Making in Relationships


Sometimes we find ourselves at crossroads in our romantic lives. The stay or go relationship spread is one of my most requested readings because it addresses the heart of relationship decision-making. This spread examines the criteria for making a decision about your relationship's future direction, considering both strengths and weaknesses of the connection.
When dating multiple people, this spread helps you see potential futures and what compromises might be needed. It provides intuitive advice about the next step to evolve this relationship, taking into account past beliefs and experiences that might be influencing your current situation. The cards reveal the relationship's overall quality and help you understand what support you need to move forward.

Understanding Relationship Challenges


Every relationship faces challenges, and tarot relationship check-ins can help identify areas where the two of you are getting stuck. The conflict resolution spread addresses relationship imbalance and explores the dynamics that may be causing friction. It's important to look at whether your needs are being met and if you're both perceiving the relationship in the same way.
This spread reveals the dominant theme of the relationship and highlights when things are out of alignment. It helps you understand what compromises are needed and where you might need additional support to overcome obstacles. The cards provide guidance on strengthening your connection and addressing any underlying issues that may be affecting your romantic partnership.

Self-Love and Personal Growth Spreads


The pathway of self-love to romance spread is beautiful for those who want to understand how their personal growth affects their romantic life. This spread focuses on self-love and care as the foundation for healthy relationships. It's particularly powerful when combined with readings for yourself that explore your personal future and capacity for love.
I often use the full moon in leo tarot spread for this work, as it emphasizes the theme of self-confidence and how we develop and grow as a person. Understanding your own needs and desires is crucial for creating a healthy romantic relationship. These spreads help you recognize patterns and work through any blocks that might be preventing you from experiencing lasting love.

General Love Insights and Celestial Spreads


For broader perspective, I use several general love spread options that provide an overview of your romantic journey. The past, present, future love spread using a three-card layout offers relationship reflection and insight into the dominant theme of your love life. The changing your luck in love spread provides an action plan for improving your current approach to relationships.
Celestial events tarot spreads are particularly powerful for love work. The full moon in cancer tarot spread emphasizes emotional depth, while the full moon in libra tarot spread focuses on balance and harmony in partnerships. The full moon in taurus tarot spread grounds your romantic intentions, and the full moon in virgo tarot spread brings practical wisdom to relationship decisions. The full moon in gemini tarot spread enhances communication and understanding between partners.
Valentine's day tarot spreads and solar eclipse tarot spread are perfect for special occasions and major life transitions. These spiritual tarot spreads often incorporate major arcana tarot spreads to reveal the deeper spiritual lessons within your romantic journey. The fool's journey can be adapted for love readings, showing the path of growth and discovery in relationships.

These are some heavy questions. We are looking for adventures with those who we bring close and are attracted to. Part of that adventure is seeing where things go. But communication should also be something that's being created. If someone isn’t speaking of the future or their feelings that's a very real reaction. Don’t be afraid to ask the cards the harder questions.

Each of these love tarot spreads focuses on the many different paths we can go down with love and insights. Whether you're using compatibility cards to understand a new connection or exploring past and future events that shape your romantic life, these spreads help you navigate the complex world of relationships. They can also mirror back to us what our intuition is trying to tell us, whether we're self searching for fulfillment or ready to commit to lasting love. Either way, these love tarot spread readings open doors to understanding your partner better and creating the romantic life you desire. 


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